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Don’t think of telling her goodbye if you don’t really mean it. Don’t break her heart only to blow up her phone when you’re lonely late at night. Don’t tell her you’re moving on if you take one step forward and two steps back to her every time. Don’t leave her if you can’t let her go. Once you break her heart she’s vulnerable, she’s hurting and she’s trying to move on with her life, like you’ve done with yours. She might text you, she might call you, but it’s because she doesn’t know how to live without you after all this time. You cut her and you cut her deep, deep enough where she will have a permanent scar, she’s doing her best, but her best will take time. Don’t tell her you miss her if you have no intentions of trying to work things out with her. Don’t call her when you need someone to talk to. Don’t show up at her house when you’re hurting. Don’t send her pictures of things that remind you of her. Don’t reach out when you’re feeling lonely. You don’t get to do that t

Fast rising music enigma Alabere_Oosha takes us by surprise, by hitting the ground running early in 2019 as he releases this new classic song ‘Praying for help’ which is predicted to be the focal point of his many to be released singles.  This song is a declaration of intent and also a harbinger to his musical career and talents. This he has portrayed in his previous singles, for me, Tonight , wonder etc.  The stage is set to receive this music power house as he takes us on an endless ride with good music. “praying 🙏 For Help” was produced by Alabere_Oosha himself and mixed and mastered Dipz. Instagram/Twitter: @alabere_oosha  Listen, Download & share your thoughts!!! DOWNLOAD mp3 PRAYING FOR HELP:ALABERE_OOSHA

Please Let Go Of Your Need To Get Even, And Let Love Back In Forgiveness is so damn hard. Sometimes we’re treated so poorly by people we trust, by people we love, hell, sometimes even by strangers. And when we’re heartbroken or frustrated or down, the last thing we want to do is turn the other cheek. The last thing we want to do is show kindness, or smile in their direction. The last thing we want to do is give them forgiveness and grace. What we really want is to cut them as deeply as they cut us, bring them all the pain they brought into our lives, maybe even doubled. We want to bad mouth them, break them down, maybe even ball our fists and fight them— but what would that really solve? When we’re young we’re taught that two wrongs don’t make a right. And as sing-songy as that phrase was when we were growing up, it still rings true. When we’re angry, fighting back in anger only builds up more negativity in our heart. When we’re sad, giving someone else a sha

The Most difficult age of any Man is probably between 24 and 29, The pressure to be something and someone is so immense, Sadly, this is the age when if not careful, one is consumed By Alcohol or drugs, This stage teaches you a lot about perseverance, about Appreciating the small wins you have each day, It Teaches you something about friendship, love, career growth and personal Responsibility. This is always your rise or fall moment depending on your choice, This is the Age when you sit back and watch the ladies you would want to date or marry getting married to guys 10years older than you and you cant blame them, It is only that your life seems to be progressing slower than their goals in life. How you live your life in 30's is detetmined by how you would have Handled your life in this phase. That is why i ask, are you working on your dreams today? Or are u focused on women, Alcohol, Sitting out with friends Every night, Clubbing Every w

14 Signs He’s The Guy You Should Be With Forever Having your guy treat you right is seriously the best thing since sliced bread. 1. He loves you even when you are awful. And ladies, can you be awful? . Just catch yourself around that “time of the month” or when you are hungry or when you are full of stress and anxiety. You can get super emotional, super angry, super short, and super rude. But he still loves you through it. He gives you grace. He knows that when you get in those moods it’s because there’s something wrong, so he tries to find out what it is. He doesn’t write you off. He helps you through it. 2. He makes an effort to form relationships with the people you love. Your family is a huge part of your life, and your best friends are like sisters and brothers to you, so having him get to know everyone close to you was something you so badly wanted him to do. And he did it… and then some. He and your sister are so close it’s like you are the third wheel sometim

Temperament and character part 2 Phlegmatic The Phlegmatic temperament has three combinations: Phlegmatic-Choleric, Phlegmatic-Sanguine, and Phlegmatic-Melancholy. The traits of the primary temperament, Phlegmatic, may be altered or modified in some significant way determined by the influence of the secondary temperament. Remember, there are at least three levels of intensity of a temperament: classic, moderate, and mild. Some Phlegmatics will be very strong, others somewhat strong, and still others more mild. Phlegmatics are naturally service-oriented. They are passive in both favorable and unfavorable environments. They influence their environment by cooperating with others to carry out the task. They tend to not be highly ambitious and they tend to lack a sense of urgency (both due to their passive nature). Phlegmatics are introverted, calm, unemotional, easygoing, indecisive, patient, and agreeable. They are both slow and indirect when responding to others. Phlegmatic

  Temperament and Character There are “reasons” for everything we do as human beings, though it is often difficult for us to understand why we think like we think, feel like we feel, or act like we act in life. Many of the answers for human behavior can be found in people’s Temperaments. What is Temperament? “Temperaments” or “Personalities ” is our genetically inherited “behavioral tendencies” that are as much a part of our DNA as is the color of our hair; all of us are made up of DNA combinations passed on to us through our parents and ancestors. This fact is important because it helps us to fully understand our basic behavioral disposition . Even though much of our human personality is inherited, it should also be noted, much of it has also been influenced and shaped by our unique environments. This article would help you figure out the type of Temperament you possess. We have four basic "Temperament" and the analysis of each is below; Choleric The Choleric temp