ACHIEVERS

Please Let Go Of Your Need To Get Even, And Let Love Back In Forgiveness is so damn hard. Sometimes we’re treated so poorly by people we trust, by people we love, hell, sometimes even by strangers. And when we’re heartbroken or frustrated or down, the last thing we want to do is turn the other cheek. The last thing we want to do is show kindness, or smile in their direction. The last thing we want to do is give them forgiveness and grace. What we really want is to cut them as deeply as they cut us, bring them all the pain they brought into our lives, maybe even doubled. We want to bad mouth them, break them down, maybe even ball our fists and fight them— but what would that really solve? When we’re young we’re taught that two wrongs don’t make a right. And as sing-songy as that phrase was when we were growing up, it still rings true. When we’re angry, fighting back in anger only builds up more negativity in our heart. When we’re sad, giving someone else a sha...

The Most difficult age of any Man is probably between 24 and 29, The pressure to be something and someone is so immense, Sadly, this is the age when if not careful, one is consumed By Alcohol or drugs, This stage teaches you a lot about perseverance, about Appreciating the small wins you have each day, It Teaches you something about friendship, love, career growth and personal Responsibility. This is always your rise or fall moment depending on your choice, This is the Age when you sit back and watch the ladies you would want to date or marry getting married to guys 10years older than you and you cant blame them, It is only that your life seems to be progressing slower than their goals in life. How you live your life in 30's is detetmined by how you would have Handled your life in this phase. That is why i ask, are you working on your dreams today? Or are u focused on women, Alcohol, Sitting out with friends Every night, Clubbing Every w...

Temperament and character part 2 Phlegmatic The Phlegmatic temperament has three combinations: Phlegmatic-Choleric, Phlegmatic-Sanguine, and Phlegmatic-Melancholy. The traits of the primary temperament, Phlegmatic, may be altered or modified in some significant way determined by the influence of the secondary temperament. Remember, there are at least three levels of intensity of a temperament: classic, moderate, and mild. Some Phlegmatics will be very strong, others somewhat strong, and still others more mild. Phlegmatics are naturally service-oriented. They are passive in both favorable and unfavorable environments. They influence their environment by cooperating with others to carry out the task. They tend to not be highly ambitious and they tend to lack a sense of urgency (both due to their passive nature). Phlegmatics are introverted, calm, unemotional, easygoing, indecisive, patient, and agreeable. They are both slow and indirect when responding to others. Phlegmatic...

                  COURAGE                          WHAT IS COURAGE?                Do you remember the last time you showed courage? Courage is often a measure of our self-esteem and will, Courage is a necessity to overcome fears and achieve a desired goal. I learned that courage was not the absence of fear, but the triumph over it. The brave man is not he who does not feel afraid, but he who conquers that fear — Nelson Mandela Fear is something that exists in all of us. There is no hero or any particular courageous figure that is without fear. Being fearless is not required to be courageous, one simply has to look past or overcome their fears to possess this great quality. When overcoming fears and going against the norm, there are always risks involved. There are different types of risks that come about. Someone could risk life...

"I don't  believe you have to be better than anybody else, I believe you have to be better  than you ever thought you could be" #Maaz#

SORRY What does it mean to you? How often do you use it? Do you mean it when you use it, or it's just another frequently used adjective to you? We now live in a generation where the adjective "SORRY" as lost it's  meaning, people abuse the use of the word, they kept on using it without taking the action that follows. Why say sorry when you'd still repeat what you did? Why say sorry when you don't know the meaning?. You get your friend fired at work and you said sorry but you did nothing to make it right, you separated two lovers because of your personal interest, you said sorry but did you try to get them back together? You hurt your friend's feeling somehow, you said sorry, but did you try to make up for it?. What does "SORRY" really mean? Sorry is that feeling of sadness, sympathy, or disappointment we feel because something unpleasant has happened or been done: The Power of Apologizing: Why Saying “Sorry” Is So Important if only ...

Google Being A WINNER    Everyone wants to be a winner but do we all have what it takes to be a winner? Have you the idea of what winning is? Are you walking on the path that can make you a winner? What is your objective to becoming a winner?.     You being a winner depends on the type of definition you give to winning . Every one defines winner based on their own perspective. A winner is someone that wins often and face every obstacles without relenting. A winner is an achiever and an achiever is a person with great achievement, an achievement is an impact. A winner despite several failures never quit but work harder instead until he/she achieve his/her goal. Winners are people who never quit. Being a winner is a mentality and a lifestyle, and even if you don't win every single thing, only those that keep working and striving hard end up being winners in the long run. Winning is and has become the central core of the society and everything that we do revolve ...

                                  Focus ---Are you finding it difficult to achieve your goals in life? ---Are the situations around you depressing?. ---Are you losing hope of being successful?. If yes, all you need to do is "Focus", stay calm and "Keep Your Head High"    Every successful individuals who have achieved their desired goal in life never lose focus. Do they encounter problems, roadblocks and obstacles? Sure, they do, but you know what? they face the problem they encountered, use every obstacle as stepping stones and they win the race to success. You should not let depressions discourage you and never shake your faith in your stand of becoming successful. "Sometimes you have got to look back at things really positively - without putting your head in the sand, you have got to manage the negativities and keep putting a positive slant on it, keep trying to find answer". " We'v...

YOU NEED PUSHERS NOT PULLERS Yes! You need people to push you forward to greatness and not people who pull you backward to failure. The joy of friendship is not in how many friends you have in your life but how much they have impacted in you positively. Yes you need friends! But not friends that will impact you negatively. You need mentors, colleagues, who will be of a good influence to your life. There are so many people in your life that you have to click on Button 'DELETE' and you delete them off your life. Friendship is not by force, it is a matter of choice and that's why you need to choose your friends wisely. A proverbs says, "show me your friend and I'll tell you who you are"You don't need to befriend everyone, you select few among those you have with you. Just few! I mean few positive minded people Few honest friends Few one's who are always there for you Few People who encourages you always Few people who tell you YES YOU CAN! ...

Make a difference  Mahatma Gandhi said, "History is not made by king or ruler, it is made by someone who performs extraordinarily." Every human being is born into an existing order, standard and limitations. Performing beyond the limitations is making a difference. For you to be an outstanding and exceptional person, you have to be distinct and at the same time be MAD( make a difference). It is your difference that earns you people's attention and honour. In the course of you making a difference, you have to be yourself and turn a deaf ear to people's criticism. You don't let people's criticism weigh you down and turn you against your course, it is your ideas, thought and attitude that make you a different and exceptional person. Don't follow people, create your way. Every being on earth is endowed with special qualities, but unveiling them is left to us. Build up your difference by doing what makes you unique. Whatever that makes you unique that mak...

*Jump while you still have the strength* 💪 Put a frog into a vessel fill with water and start heating the water. As the temperature of the water begins to rise, the frog adjust its body temperature accordingly. The frog keeps adjusting its body temperature with the increasing temperature of the water. Just when the water is about to reach boiling point, the frog cannot adjust anymore. At this point the frog decides to jump out. The frog tries to jump but it is unable to do so because it has lost all its strength in adjusting with the rising water temperature. Very soon the frog dies. What killed the frog? Think about it! I know many of us will say the boiling water. But the truth about what killed the frog was its own inability to decide when to jump out. We all need to adjust with people & situations, but we need to be sure when we need to adjust & when we need to move on. There are times when we need to face the situation and take appropriate actions. If we allow pe...

"THE WAY IT HAS BEEN " — EVIL MYTH By:Talkspen ~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~ Boy: mama, now that we have been sent spoons, why do you always want me to eat with my bare hand like before? Old woman: It is uncultured! Boy: (surprise) Ha, mama, uncultured? But... Old woman: (cuts in) shut up! Can you understand when something is said to be uncultured? Or what do you think you know? And besides you are just a little boy. Boy: then explain to me what that means. Old woman: Good. It is a way of life we were born into, which was laid by our forefathers. We were taught and trained to always eat with our hands. So it is out of our culture to forfeit our ancestral pattern of eating for any other things. Boy: But why can't we adopt this into our culture? Since we now have spoon, we can always eat with it as it aid our eating pleasure. I don't think it is a crime to do things in a way it has never been done before. Old woman: (sigh) You...

Life is like a movie, it has a beginning as well as an end, Life is a product with an expiry date, it doesn't matter how long the lifespan is, it will surely expire. The best way to enjoy life is to take it simply, for ye who take bike and ye who trek will be meeting at the same junction, spot or final destination. Your position is just a seasonal tag, which can be stripped off you at any moment. If you can't make life a good place for someone, better to let them be other than making it a living HELL... #JAY#

Dare to be different. Dare to be free, dare to go as far as your thought leads, and dare to carry that out in your life. You must uphold your ideals, for perhaps the time will come when you shall be able to carry them out, in doing so, Remove negative people from your life. The people you spend time with influence your attitude, thoughts and success more than you think. What makes you different, makes you special. Don't ever change to fit someone else's needs, always "dare to be different" People know your name, not your story. They've heard what you've done, but not what you've been through, you don't need to listen to their critics, "dare to be different" People always have the right to judge you without knowing who you really are. But u also have the right to decide not to care, always "dare to be different". Be yourself. People may or may not like you, but it's important that you stay true to who you are. #Dare_To_B...

Happiness doubles and sorrows half in the company of a friend, friendship can heal a depressed mind and broken heart. Friends are neighbours,confidants and boosters,they know what makes us laugh and what brings sadness... A relationship that has no ties and yet bounds you into an everlasting bond,it knows no boundary,no gender,no gender,no race cast or creed. Whether you know it or not,there are different level of friendship, we all have acquaintances, it depends on what you make out of it,but one thing remains common which is a sense of security,act of belonging and love,this what friendship is supposed to give,this is the power of friendship. Peoples most fear is loneliness,anyone can be your friend,servant, a siblings, parents,cousin, a single person or your spouse,LOVE THEM!,we heed the friendship power now more than ever and that is why one love keeps us together. The heart seeks genuineness and honesty which have no substitutes,it is true friendship that the world seeks......

The mind is a set of cognitive faculties including consciousness, perception, thinking, judgement, language and memory. Do you really grasp and understand the infinite potential that exists and is readily available to you to create a kind and quality of life limited only by your willingness or unwillingness to "conceive" something as possible for you? More importantly do you know how to consciously utilize YOUR Mind...this very same Mind that we all possess without exception to consistently create desired results? whether you're consciously aware of it or not, or ready to accept it or not, you're already using your mind every second of every minute of everyday. The mind is very powerful and if you learn how to harness that power you can achieve great things and even produce your own miracles. Everyone has the ability to unlock their minds power. The problem is that most of us don’t put in enough dedication to really achieve things deemed as a miracle. Y...

"Darkness can not drive out darkness,only light can  do that hate can not drive out hate, only love can do that" Martin Luther King

"If you befriend the devil, it will definitely knock your door someday" if you are a friend with the ruthless one,it will one day hurt you. watch who you make friends with,if you make friends with good people,they will do you good someday and vice versa. Jay*

There are two ways of being rich:  One is to have all you want,  the other is to be satisfied with what you have. #Be appreciative :Learn to be appreciative, being appreciative brings more favors.  #Be_Contented:learn to be contented, being contented kills greediness.  Ogunyemi joy  

A gentle answer  turns away wrath,      but a harsh word stirs up anger. Jay*