ACHIEVERS

Don’t think of telling her goodbye if you don’t really mean it. Don’t break her heart only to blow up her phone when you’re lonely late at night. Don’t tell her you’re moving on if you take one step forward and two steps back to her every time. Don’t leave her if you can’t let her go. Once you break her heart she’s vulnerable, she’s hurting and she’s trying to move on with her life, like you’ve done with yours. She might text you, she might call you, but it’s because she doesn’t know how to live without you after all this time. You cut her and you cut her deep, deep enough where she will have a permanent scar, she’s doing her best, but her best will take time. Don’t tell her you miss her if you have no intentions of trying to work things out with her. Don’t call her when you need someone to talk to. Don’t show up at her house when you’re hurting. Don’t send her pictures of things that remind you of her. Don’t reach out when you’re feeling lonely. You don’t get to do that t...

Fast rising music enigma Alabere_Oosha takes us by surprise, by hitting the ground running early in 2019 as he releases this new classic song ‘Praying for help’ which is predicted to be the focal point of his many to be released singles.  This song is a declaration of intent and also a harbinger to his musical career and talents. This he has portrayed in his previous singles, for me, Tonight , wonder etc.  The stage is set to receive this music power house as he takes us on an endless ride with good music. “praying 🙏 For Help” was produced by Alabere_Oosha himself and mixed and mastered Dipz. Instagram/Twitter: @alabere_oosha  Listen, Download & share your thoughts!!! DOWNLOAD mp3 PRAYING FOR HELP:ALABERE_OOSHA

Please Let Go Of Your Need To Get Even, And Let Love Back In Forgiveness is so damn hard. Sometimes we’re treated so poorly by people we trust, by people we love, hell, sometimes even by strangers. And when we’re heartbroken or frustrated or down, the last thing we want to do is turn the other cheek. The last thing we want to do is show kindness, or smile in their direction. The last thing we want to do is give them forgiveness and grace. What we really want is to cut them as deeply as they cut us, bring them all the pain they brought into our lives, maybe even doubled. We want to bad mouth them, break them down, maybe even ball our fists and fight them— but what would that really solve? When we’re young we’re taught that two wrongs don’t make a right. And as sing-songy as that phrase was when we were growing up, it still rings true. When we’re angry, fighting back in anger only builds up more negativity in our heart. When we’re sad, giving someone else a sha...

The Most difficult age of any Man is probably between 24 and 29, The pressure to be something and someone is so immense, Sadly, this is the age when if not careful, one is consumed By Alcohol or drugs, This stage teaches you a lot about perseverance, about Appreciating the small wins you have each day, It Teaches you something about friendship, love, career growth and personal Responsibility. This is always your rise or fall moment depending on your choice, This is the Age when you sit back and watch the ladies you would want to date or marry getting married to guys 10years older than you and you cant blame them, It is only that your life seems to be progressing slower than their goals in life. How you live your life in 30's is detetmined by how you would have Handled your life in this phase. That is why i ask, are you working on your dreams today? Or are u focused on women, Alcohol, Sitting out with friends Every night, Clubbing Every w...

14 Signs He’s The Guy You Should Be With Forever Having your guy treat you right is seriously the best thing since sliced bread. 1. He loves you even when you are awful. And ladies, can you be awful? . Just catch yourself around that “time of the month” or when you are hungry or when you are full of stress and anxiety. You can get super emotional, super angry, super short, and super rude. But he still loves you through it. He gives you grace. He knows that when you get in those moods it’s because there’s something wrong, so he tries to find out what it is. He doesn’t write you off. He helps you through it. 2. He makes an effort to form relationships with the people you love. Your family is a huge part of your life, and your best friends are like sisters and brothers to you, so having him get to know everyone close to you was something you so badly wanted him to do. And he did it… and then some. He and your sister are so close it’s like you are the third wheel sometim...

Temperament and character part 2 Phlegmatic The Phlegmatic temperament has three combinations: Phlegmatic-Choleric, Phlegmatic-Sanguine, and Phlegmatic-Melancholy. The traits of the primary temperament, Phlegmatic, may be altered or modified in some significant way determined by the influence of the secondary temperament. Remember, there are at least three levels of intensity of a temperament: classic, moderate, and mild. Some Phlegmatics will be very strong, others somewhat strong, and still others more mild. Phlegmatics are naturally service-oriented. They are passive in both favorable and unfavorable environments. They influence their environment by cooperating with others to carry out the task. They tend to not be highly ambitious and they tend to lack a sense of urgency (both due to their passive nature). Phlegmatics are introverted, calm, unemotional, easygoing, indecisive, patient, and agreeable. They are both slow and indirect when responding to others. Phlegmatic...

  Temperament and Character There are “reasons” for everything we do as human beings, though it is often difficult for us to understand why we think like we think, feel like we feel, or act like we act in life. Many of the answers for human behavior can be found in people’s Temperaments. What is Temperament? “Temperaments” or “Personalities ” is our genetically inherited “behavioral tendencies” that are as much a part of our DNA as is the color of our hair; all of us are made up of DNA combinations passed on to us through our parents and ancestors. This fact is important because it helps us to fully understand our basic behavioral disposition . Even though much of our human personality is inherited, it should also be noted, much of it has also been influenced and shaped by our unique environments. This article would help you figure out the type of Temperament you possess. We have four basic "Temperament" and the analysis of each is below; Choleric The Choleric temp...

      State of my Heart                                 (True Story)      Funny how love kept me trying even when my heart get shattered and It feels like I'm losing my mind.......      I can't help but blame myself for our relationship was based on the lies I told....      I love her from the start but I told her all I want is "friendship" , I was afraid of professing my affection to a stranger, for all I know she can be one of those girls, I get to know her and my affection grew stronger, I fall deeply inlove, an unconditional love and affection.      I become her friend and a secret lover, little did I know my heart is taking over from my mind, time passes and when I couldn't hold it any longer, I pour out my heart and told her I want more, I want something deeper than just friendship, I want more, just when I felt I kn...

Letter 007 To Dear Talents,   Nothing bearing prologue or preamble in this letter I am writing right now. The fact that I've seen that I have many talents and many unsealed potentials. I'm not sorry for not been discovered the unsealed ones. Here is the excuse I am not going to make; the ones have discovered, and being in used haven't fetched me money I been expecting.   Hey! I have to concentrate on the ones am using right now. Be still, while am journey the dream of fairy. ©Stefan.

There it comes again, Celestial Church of Christ, student's parish, The Polytechnic, Ibadan Chapter, Moruba, Ewa Castle Apete, Ibadan has bring it to our hearing that the magnificent church is holding her Annual Drama Night which will come up on the 24th of August, 2018 this coming Friday at the church venue. Song ministration Drama activities  Drummers activities, many more activities and Icons will be available while menu menu is not excluded...  DON'T MISS IT, MISSING IT,  YOU MISS! WATCH OUT FOR IT!!!

‘RUDE AWAKENING’ By Talkspen Rude awakening is a phrase I got from the famous speech of 1963, “I have a dream…” by Dr Martin Luther King, Jnr. over the discrimination and segregation against the Black-Americans.  Though it sound vulgar-like, but it is not. The meaning is the irony of it sound. Awakening means stirring up someone from sleep; an act of becoming suddenly aware of something while rude awakening is used politically to describe the sudden change or awareness created by the people to show their dissatisfaction with unpleasant and unfitting dispositions of the government towards them; such awakening stirs up the government, making it active and alive again to its responsibilities. The word ‘rude’ in the phrase, shows the high degree of alacrity in the awakening process. This process is what I refer to as the ‘legal revolt’. Here is an excerpt from the declaration of independence and the constitution of the United States of America pointing out what government real...