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Temperament and character part 2

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Temperament and character part 2 Phlegmatic The Phlegmatic temperament has three combinations: Phlegmatic-Choleric, Phlegmatic-Sanguine, and Phlegmatic-Melancholy. The traits of the primary temperament, Phlegmatic, may be altered or modified in some significant way determined by the influence of the secondary temperament. Remember, there are at least three levels of intensity of a temperament: classic, moderate, and mild. Some Phlegmatics will be very strong, others somewhat strong, and still others more mild. Phlegmatics are naturally service-oriented. They are passive in both favorable and unfavorable environments. They influence their environment by cooperating with others to carry out the task. They tend to not be highly ambitious and they tend to lack a sense of urgency (both due to their passive nature). Phlegmatics are introverted, calm, unemotional, easygoing, indecisive, patient, and agreeable. They are both slow and indirect when responding to others. Phlegmatic

Temperament and Character Part 1

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  Temperament and Character There are “reasons” for everything we do as human beings, though it is often difficult for us to understand why we think like we think, feel like we feel, or act like we act in life. Many of the answers for human behavior can be found in people’s Temperaments. What is Temperament? “Temperaments” or “Personalities ” is our genetically inherited “behavioral tendencies” that are as much a part of our DNA as is the color of our hair; all of us are made up of DNA combinations passed on to us through our parents and ancestors. This fact is important because it helps us to fully understand our basic behavioral disposition . Even though much of our human personality is inherited, it should also be noted, much of it has also been influenced and shaped by our unique environments. This article would help you figure out the type of Temperament you possess. We have four basic "Temperament" and the analysis of each is below; Choleric The Choleric temp

THE STATE OF MY HEART

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      State of my Heart                                 (True Story)      Funny how love kept me trying even when my heart get shattered and It feels like I'm losing my mind.......      I can't help but blame myself for our relationship was based on the lies I told....      I love her from the start but I told her all I want is "friendship" , I was afraid of professing my affection to a stranger, for all I know she can be one of those girls, I get to know her and my affection grew stronger, I fall deeply inlove, an unconditional love and affection.      I become her friend and a secret lover, little did I know my heart is taking over from my mind, time passes and when I couldn't hold it any longer, I pour out my heart and told her I want more, I want something deeper than just friendship, I want more, just when I felt I know her enough..... It started as a joke, then she realise I am serious, unfortunately for me, she didn't feel the same way, so

To The Dear Talents

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Letter 007 To Dear Talents,   Nothing bearing prologue or preamble in this letter I am writing right now. The fact that I've seen that I have many talents and many unsealed potentials. I'm not sorry for not been discovered the unsealed ones. Here is the excuse I am not going to make; the ones have discovered, and being in used haven't fetched me money I been expecting.   Hey! I have to concentrate on the ones am using right now. Be still, while am journey the dream of fairy. ©Stefan.

You Don't Want To Miss This... Check this out

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There it comes again, Celestial Church of Christ, student's parish, The Polytechnic, Ibadan Chapter, Moruba, Ewa Castle Apete, Ibadan has bring it to our hearing that the magnificent church is holding her Annual Drama Night which will come up on the 24th of August, 2018 this coming Friday at the church venue. Song ministration Drama activities  Drummers activities, many more activities and Icons will be available while menu menu is not excluded...  DON'T MISS IT, MISSING IT,  YOU MISS! WATCH OUT FOR IT!!!

THE RUDE AWAKENING’

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‘RUDE AWAKENING’ By Talkspen Rude awakening is a phrase I got from the famous speech of 1963, “I have a dream…” by Dr Martin Luther King, Jnr. over the discrimination and segregation against the Black-Americans.  Though it sound vulgar-like, but it is not. The meaning is the irony of it sound. Awakening means stirring up someone from sleep; an act of becoming suddenly aware of something while rude awakening is used politically to describe the sudden change or awareness created by the people to show their dissatisfaction with unpleasant and unfitting dispositions of the government towards them; such awakening stirs up the government, making it active and alive again to its responsibilities. The word ‘rude’ in the phrase, shows the high degree of alacrity in the awakening process. This process is what I refer to as the ‘legal revolt’. Here is an excerpt from the declaration of independence and the constitution of the United States of America pointing out what government really i

My Undying Love For You

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My Undying Love I was alone feeling all empty and lonely until I met you, We go from being strangers to friends, I become acquainted with you and I fall inlove, The feeling of emptiness inside me was filled, I become whole again thinking I've found the one, It hits me too bad because you don't feel the same, I really don't mind for I believe my love is enough for us, We grew closer with time and I promise to always be there, We could talk for hours and I never feel despair, We could chat for days but I always begin to miss you the moment we stop, Even though you don't love me I still believe you care, I believe both of us are what they call true friends, It breaks my heart to know I was just a means to your end, You only became my friend because you thought I was useful, Now you push me away since you've found someone better, All those time we have spent to together, I can't believe you could say I'm not that fun to chat, talk and spend s

5 Ways You Can Sound Smarter When Answering Difficult Questions

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5 Ways You Can Sound Smarter When Answering Difficult Questions ANSWER PROVOCATIVE QUESTIONS LIKE A PRO: Occasionally you may be unlucky enough to be asked inappropriate questions such as, ‘Are you thinking of taking time out the workplace to have children in the near-future?’ It can be hard to know how to respond to such queries. However, assuming you still really want the job, a sensible approach in such a situation is to react in a short, assertive manner (‘No, I am not’) and re-direct their attention towards another topic. For instance, to continue with the above example, your answer could go as follows – ‘No, I am not, as I am determined to use my extensive experience in this field to further my skills in areas X, Y and Z.’ 2. LEAVE SLIGHT PAUSES WHEN YOU TALK AND WATCH YOUR TONE: Sometimes, just a few extra seconds can make all the difference between an acceptable and unacceptable answer. When someone asks you a hard question, look them in the eyes, and allow yourself a br

IT IS BRIGHT, WE MUST GET THERE.

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IT IS BRIGHT, WE MUST GET THERE. Colorful, and it's bright It’s our hope to get there one day If we keep on dreaming it If we keep on threading its bright path If we are well determined enough We will surely get there. We must get there; It not just a place of flatulence; Where excess words are full of wishes, That won't wish to come near. We must get there; Where we've been aiming, The place we've been dreaming. We will get there, Either on earth or afterlife, If we don't make it here Afterlife is sure to be made. Colorful brightest moment Where peace rest. We would get there If we keep on moving. ©Stefan.

DO YOU REMEMBER THE LAST TIME YOU SHOWED COURAGE?

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                  COURAGE                          WHAT IS COURAGE?                Do you remember the last time you showed courage? Courage is often a measure of our self-esteem and will, Courage is a necessity to overcome fears and achieve a desired goal. I learned that courage was not the absence of fear, but the triumph over it. The brave man is not he who does not feel afraid, but he who conquers that fear — Nelson Mandela Fear is something that exists in all of us. There is no hero or any particular courageous figure that is without fear. Being fearless is not required to be courageous, one simply has to look past or overcome their fears to possess this great quality. When overcoming fears and going against the norm, there are always risks involved. There are different types of risks that come about. Someone could risk life or limb, while others risk their reputation. Either risk is serious enough that a person must have courage to endure that particular risk.       Co

MY PEELED HEART

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PEELED HEART I see the love I'm loving for, quiet an age I banged into the love have been hoping to see Swimming in the ocean of abundant fake love I thought it's my final stage of love Not knowing that the grass has yellow leave after its fresh green life Not realizing the moment have been experiencing scorn love Not thinking twice with my sense of humor All I do is to bow for the love I love and see I feel sobered when I realized what I'm feeling now It's looks like a nightmare after sweet dream I'm confused for the discombobulation I'm into The love I rest my life upon turns lost I thought it's you and I forever I rely on the promise you make which you later knock down I rely in your responsible face, which turns something else Just as if you are not the one have knew then I go from hills to valley to forget the nightmare Immediately I turn back All I  see is you with the past moment we have shared together Masturbation is what

LETTER TO THE ONE IN TROUBLE

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Letter 008 LETTER TO THE ONE IN TROUBLE Dear friend,      Deep depth I’m conjuring these alphabets, to meet your daily requirements. I must have to tell you this, to meet your daily requirements. I must have to tell you the needing. What to do, when you’re down.       There is no easy and simple way they say. It is the truth. You just have to summon courage, gain and refill strength, to what it takes to stand, just to overcome the current or on ground problem. “There’s no word up for you to look up to the sky and start counting stars in your lost”. I must tell you, there’s no better advice anybody can give to you than “Don’t listen to or take anyone’s advice”. That’s the best word I precious most while working the journey of life.       Friend, when you are down, lonely, scared, no one is around you, saliva runs out your mouth, spit deny you, word fails you, cloud turns rock, atmosphere turns cage, your home looks like dungeon, even your biggest mansion turns jail; misery,